Saturday, November 13, 2010

Pretty Necklace


Thursday night at 7pm:
I was making cookies and cleaning up dinner.
Vince was in the shower.
Brooke and Jack were in the booster seats at the bar eating cookies.

Jack pushed his barstool away from the table to get down when he was done, like always.  Brooke is strapped into her booster seat and sometimes will push herself away from the counter as well to signal to me that I need to come and get her out.  Well, she pushed her chair away from the table and it got stuck on something on the floor, and the next thing I saw will haunt me forever.

I was at the sink facing the kids in their chairs.  As the barstool begin to tip over backwards, I could see the fear in her eyes as she fell. I tried to reach over the bar to grab her, but I wasn't even close. I heard a large crash and ran around the bar to find her still strapped in her chair, lying on the floor, with her head up against the rock fireplace that divides our family room and kitchen.
She was screaming hysterically, and so was I.
(they gave her a kitty in the ER and she LOVED it)

 All I could think of was to get her out of that chair and get her to Vince.  I ran her into the bathroom where Vince was in the shower and I couldn't even tell him what happened I was so crazy. Brooke was screaming uncontrollably. He jumped out and brought some sanity to the situation.
He kept saying "She'll be fine, did she just fall?" and I still couldn't even talk. It didn't take him long once coming in to the kitchen to see the overturned barstool and know what happened.
She wasn't even bleeding.
The next thing I knew, she went limp in my arms.
My screaming got a lot louder.
We scooped up Jack who was in shorts and an undershirt, no shoes.
Vince threw on some clothes, no socks, shampoo in his hair and we jumped in the car to drive to the ER.  As we were pulling out, I saw the Bishop,  a Dr., pulling out of his driveway and started screaming at Vince to flag him down.
As he came to my window, I had Brooke limp in my arms and I couldn't get the words out to tell him what had happened. He said to go straight the ER and he would call and let them know we were on our way!
We had no money, no phones and I was definitely lacking in sanity.
On the way to the ER she opened her eyes a few times but they would just roll back in her head. 
We got to the ER (it seemed like it took us an hour to make the 20 minute drive) and she starting throwing up when I got her out of the car. I had completely lost it by now.

(This is how we slept the first night)
A few CT Scans and MRI's later we found that she had a skull fracture at the back of her head close to the neck and a severe concussion. Vince's brother found out what had happened through the Bishop and brought us a phone and picked up Jack. He saved us that night. We had a rough night, but the next morning she started to act like herself again and even smiled.

We called the neckbrace her pretty necklace from the start, and luckily for us, she is very gullible, and never once tried to take it off.

 She kept her bucket close  by because she was still throwing up a little bit.

 Oh how she hated this thing on her foot!

And oddly enough, her port didn't even bother her.

She never slept in the crib, but sure enjoyed playing in it.

We were able to come home Friday afternoon and I was so excited to change me and Brooke out of our puke covered clothing!
 Notice the new high chair?  Jack doesn't know it, but his is on the way!
It was so scary and I definitely learned some lessons through this whole ordeal.
1-Barstools should be thrown in the garbage
2-I don't handle stressful situations involving injuries well at all! In fact I nearly threw up from all my hyperventilating.
3- Brooke is so tough!
4- I will kiss my babies a plethora of times every day!

 She was fitted for her new neckbrace today and she will wear it for 2 weeks.  We have a follow up appointment at Primary Children's then and hopefully she won't have to wear it anymore after we meet with their Neurosurgeon.    Her new brace is pretty intense.




We love her so much and we are so blessed that there haven't been any serious complications from the accident. She requires constant supervision for the next 2 weeks, so I am sure I will be very busy for the next few weeks.

Thanks for all you who helped us out and sent prayers our way!  You have done so much!

18 comments:

Audrey said...

I started to tear up reading this, so beyond happy she is okay and you survived!

kelley said...

How blessed everyone is!! I'm pretty sure I'd be right there with the whole hyperventilating thing. I love that she's smiling in all those pictures. I'm pretty sure little kids are tougher than the adults.

Cory & Alli said...

Oh my goodness, Angie, that is too sad! Poor babe! I never really thought about bar stools before, but I will now! I hope the recovery isn't too hard for either of you! :)

Brittney said...

I had to stop three times. I couldn;t see through my tears. Boston has had two serious accidents in the last month. I lost it the first time as well. full panic attack. I decided after to make a game plan for all possible injuries. I did much better the second time.

i;m so glad she is ok. still praying for all of you.

Kasha said...

I am so glad you are home, and your baby girl is doing better! How scary!! We will continue to pray for her speedy recovery. If you need anything, don't hesitate to call.

Chris and Cindy said...

She looks so cute in her new "necklace" ... Good luck! I don't think Tessa would keep it on so Brooke is doing great! Call if you need anything.

Marcie said...

I am so sorry....... and so happy that she is doing so great with it all.

Love seeing all those happy smiles.

Boy does this bring back memories of when Alice electrocuted herself at about the same age......the panic, the half dressed boys in the car with me and the eternal drive to the hospital holding her in my arms.

Those sure are hard Mommy days.

What a relief that yours turned out okay in the end.

Can't wait to see pictures of Jack in a highchair:)

Denise said...

Wow! I am so glad that she is okay...... and you too! There is nothing scarier when it is your babies and you can't do anything! Hopefully everything will stay okay!

tvmom said...

so glad she is ok!

tonyandalli said...

This terrifies me! I'm always trying to tell myself that when my kids get bumps and bruises they're going to be just fine. And we've had some doozies! But occassionally after Tony's asleep I'll go sit by them to make sure they're breathing alright. I'm so glad Brookie is going to get better, and we'll keep her in our prayers.

charm said...

Yes, I did shed a few tears reading this.... oh my, Ange! Even in my (limited) nursing experience, if I saw my child go limp in my arms... I would FREAK! I'm SOOOOOO glad she's okay! I've been thinking about bar stools.... guess I'll keep thinkin'. :)

taggdarci said...

I can't even fathom what you just went through. I am so glad she is going to be okay and that she is keeping that "pretty necklace" on. She is beautiful and we will keep you all in our prayers. Please let me know if you need any help with anything, cutting fabric, running to Broulim's, seriously, I'd love to help out!

Andrea said...

What a scary thing! I am so glad Brooke is ok......it is such a helpless feeling when your kids are hurt. Thanks for the barstool reminder.....they are off limits to Molly!

Nichole said...

Oh Angie,I am so sorry about Brooke. Thank goodness she is handling everything so well. Take care!

Paige said...

I got tears in my eyes just reading this. I can't imagine how scary that was for you...and for her. I am so happy that she's okay and likes her "necklace". Makes me want to go pick Cash up and give him lots and lots of kisses. Something like that could happen to anyone and happens so fast!

We won't be getting a booster seat anytime soon. :)

Erika said...

breathing a hugh sigh of relief for you. Ask Jane about the time she ran over Stacie. My mom had to slap her and the dr.'s gave her a sedative. So glad you're both on the mend. Let us know how Jack likes his new high chair. (ps: I'm now going to replace my tile floors)

Alicia said...

Oh my gosh, I've never even met her and this post made me get all teary! I am so, SO glad she was ok and that you were right there! And what a good little sport she is. Again, just so glad everything turned out alright. Oh, and I totally understand the hyperventilating thing, I felt a little hyperventilaty just reading this! I felt that same way when Sheldon had to get stitches after cracking his head.

Grossarths said...

Oh wow, it makes me sick just thinking about that happening. Even being a nurse, I find that I freak out a lot more when its my own kid that is hurt! I hope things are going well now. Brooke sure is cute!